Family is the real place of all happiness, It is very important to spend some time traveling and giving time to family. Because family is the lifeblood of a man.
Look at the sky and see that you will feel light and decent comfortable. At the end of the moon, two eyes will move left and right in the sky and the mind will feel good.
🌃 A hand full
of trust is much more valuable than a hand full of money:-
💆Trust is a
priceless asset in life, it takes a lot of effort to gain trust, but there is
no effort to break trust. This is not the true symptom of a human being.
💲Everyone has
some or all of their money, and it can be spent in any way they want. On the
other hand, not everyone is trustworthy or can be trusted.
📈 Trust is a
priceless asset in life, trust in yourself is born after many struggle. You are
a believer, to achieve this you have to become a combination of many qualities
- which is very difficult.
🚌 It is better
not to run with unbelievers, even if they have money - the fall down is very near
at you. Believers, even if they don't have money, are very valuable and
respected.
╫ There is no
opportunity or possibility to walk alone in this general life. One has to trust
someone or the other. To establish that trust, one needs a believing person.
Unbeliever and ineligible are the same thing.
👫 Trust is the
pride of man who has only light and no darkness.
The word trust
is very small but the meaning is very deep or detailed.
🍟🙋Fondness
and fascination are like a spider's web - once you get caught up in it, it is
very difficult to get out:
🏡When
we learn about fondness, we want to become a slave or fondness is a house in
our life. A house that we can enter and cannot get out of. Fondness is often
the cause of harm - the greater the fondness, the greater the amount of
deception.
💙 Fondness
is a habit that people lose - relationships are lost, but fondness is never
lost. Fondness has no adjective that we can always catch in the trap of fondness
- many times fondness's people are lost before fondness is over.
🌺Many
people believe that due to environmental conditions, they are subject to fondness.
If they could overcome fondness, they might be much better off.
Love
needs fondness to survive - and it needs excuses to leave. You have to be
careful that where there is fondness, you have no value to me, you have to
remove yourself from there.
💎If
you do not get yourself entangled in the web of fondness, then you will not be
able to live well. Fondness is very strange and you cannot tell when it will
come and knock on the door.
Ɗ📔The most dangerous
disease in the world is called fondness, so before getting entangled in fondness,
you should keep in mind its tolerance.
If you are
trying to achieve your dreams - you should not neglect time:
Everyone
sees dreams and even dream them - but how many can reach their dreams? Yes,
those who do not neglect time can.
Man is
greater than his dreams, if he uses his time properly. Our work or journey
begins from dreams. A man without dreams is like a boat without a helmsman -
there is no edge - he immediately goes astray.
Dreams are
the means of survival of man. He who does not have dreams but lives -in vain.
Dreams are
not to be shared - but they must be followed or acted upon. One must keep
trying until one reaches the very last step of one's dream. One must remember
that as difficult as it is to climb up - falling down is not as difficult -
falling down is very easy.
Take control
of time, don't let time control you. Time's work has to be done on time.
Remember that the stairs you are riding are no longer the same stairs as
before.
Time is a
wonderful thing - it will hype you but it will not even tell you when it has hyped
you. Time is your friend - not your enemy - if you value time, time will take
you to the highest level in a moment - without any demands.
Manage time
like a dream - Don't manage your dream like time. Time is a great friend of
neglect. So if you are trying to reach your dream - don't neglect time:-
You have to decide whether to carry the burden
of the past or move forward _
This is one of the most fundamental choices
we face in life. Here’s a breakdown of what it means to carry the burden of the
past versus moving forward, and why the choice is so critical.
This isn't about remembering your past or
having fond or bittersweet memories. Carrying the burden is an active, draining
state. It means:
Constantly replaying mistakes, asking
"What if?" and punishing yourself for choices you can no longer
change.
Clutching tightly to old hurts, betrayals,
and anger. You carry the person who wronged you with you everywhere, letting
their past actions poison your present.
Letting a single event, or a series of events,
become the entire story of who you are. It becomes your identity.
Trying to build a life in the exact spot
where something painful happened, refusing to acknowledge that time has moved
on and so must you.
Carrying this burden is like trying to drive
a car with the parking brake on. You burn immense energy but go nowhere. It
leads to anxiety, depression, chronic stress, and prevents you from experiencing
joy, new opportunities, and genuine connection in the present.
Moving forward is not the same as forgetting
or pretending the past didn't happen. It is an act of integration and release.
You look at the past clearly and say,
"This happened. It was painful. It was a mistake. It was real." You
accept it as a fact of your history without letting it dictate your emotional
state today.
You ask, "What did this teach me?"
instead of "Why did this happen to me?" You extract the lesson, the
strength, or the clarity from the experience and weave it into your wisdom. The
scar remains, but the wound closes.
This is releasing the hope for a different
past. You forgive others not for their sake, but for your own peace. You
forgive yourself for being human and making mistakes.
You consciously direct your attention and
energy to what you can control now—your current actions, thoughts, and choices.
You plant new seeds instead of staring at the fallen tree.
You trade the heavy weight of the past for
the lighter, more manageable tools of wisdom and experience. You free up mental
and emotional energy to create a life you love, starting from this moment.
The choice isn't between remembering and
forgetting. It's a choice between being a prisoner of the past and being a
student of it.
Lives in the small, dark room of a past
event. They decorate it with their pain and refuse to walk out the open door.
The past is their warden.
Visits the room of the past. They study it,
learn what they can from the artifacts there, and then they leave. They use
that knowledge to build a better, brighter house for themselves in the present.
How to Actually Make the Choice to Move
Forward:
Feel It to Heal It: You cannot bypass a
feeling you haven't processed. Allow yourself to feel the anger, grief, or
regret fully, but set a time limit. Don't let it become your permanent address.
Take One Small Action: Moving forward is a
direction, not a destination. Do one tiny thing today that your
"forward-moving" self would do. Clean a drawer. Go for a walk. Make a
phone call you've been avoiding. Action creates momentum.
Practice Self-Compassion: Talk to yourself as
you would a dear friend who made a mistake or went through a hard time. You
would not chain them to their past; offer yourself the same grace.
You carry the burden when you choose to live in that
place of reference, dragging all its heaviness into your present. You move
forward when you visit that place for wisdom, then return home to the present
moment to build your life with the materials you have now. The choice is yours,
and you can make it anew in every moment.
The real
lesson in life is realizing where to stop, and understanding where to move away
from.
Life will
not stop - or cannot be stopped. But you have to do the right thing at the
right time-moment. You have to know that. Not everything will be as you want in
every place - or not everyone will love you - or not give you the same time-period.
Whatever you and I want.
You have to
reach your destination - that's true.
So to reach
the destination, you have to walk with many people - go to many places - work
with many people - build relationships.
The special
thing to know here is that not all places are for you - the real lesson is that
you have to away yourself from the place that is not for you.
We always
want to move at the same speed - but the point here is that we cannot always
move at the same speed - we have to know where to stop with knowledge - and we
have to stop ourselves.
You have to
stop where there may be or will be thorns in your pathway. You can make
yourself small, but not so small that it is difficult to find your entity - you
have to be careful.
You need to
remove yourself from places where you feel like your honor or position is being
looked down upon or underestimated.
Paper-and-pen
education is not just education, but also pass away or removing oneself from
the situation and constructive education. This removal is basically about
self-respect and maintaining the position.
However,
many friends will come and go in life, but not all will be friends. I am
especially talking about a genuine friend.
The one who
will consider your feelings, pain, regrets as his own and will be by your side.
On your
journey, you will find many people who will either use you when necessary or
envy you in the guise of friends.
Only true
friends will stand by you in times of trouble and everyone else will walk away.
The time-selected way
to determine a friend is to be in trouble - there will be no shortage of
friends to take advantage of, but there is a shortage of friends in trouble.
