The greater the demand, the greater.....

The greater the demand, the greater the disappointment:

    There is no limit to what we want, the more we get in human life, the more we want.

    One thing is certain, there is no limit to this desire or the number of people who have been able to stop this desire is very low.

    Over time, the scope of our demands or expectations increases greatly - either because of sheer demand or because of position.

    At one time, it seemed that the desire for demand might stop here - but instead of stopping, it only increased.

    This calculation of our wants and needs is not new, it has been going on for ages. On the contrary, because of this demand, people's desire to live may have increased. Or, perhaps, the desire to live may have decreased at some point.

    The difference is that words or actions like frustration, worry, and instability are created by needs or expectations. The higher your expectations, the greater the frustration.

    The point is, there must be needs and expectations, but they must be in moderation and as little as possible or limited.

    If you cannot restrain yourself in this position, only disappointment will occur. Therefore, the less expectations, the less disappointment.

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Even a cheerful person becomes silent under the.......

 

Even a cheerful person becomes silent under the pressure of circumstances:-

    But it is very difficult to control the circumstances all the time. We all want a cheerful life and to be good to everyone. This is the first of a thousand demands. Everyone wants their happiness to be permanent.

    But disruption occurs when this joy is completely silenced or lost. The situation that is not to be desired is-a bad situation.

    Everyone wants or is ready for a better situation. Everyone wants the moon to always be with them and to go through life weaving garlands.

    We are responsible for our family's-responsibility and efforts. This family responsibility and effort situation sometimes robs us of our happiness.

    No matter the situation, even the person who wants to be happy becomes silent at some point. It seems that being silent is the safest or the best position to take a deep breath.

    Even a person who used to be very cheerful can become silent at some point due to unwanted pressure, actions, violence, slander, etc.

    And once it's silent, it becomes permanent. It never comes back cheerfully or wants to come back.

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To make your own identity, it is essential to away..........

To make your own identity, it is essential to away out from the crowd: 

    Who doesn't want to develop themselves? Everyone wants their own position and level of upstairs. The point here is that the disagreements are very high, not everyone will want what's good for me or you - or will not be able to accept what's good of us. This is a social characteristic.

    You will see that even if you share your troubles or learn something, some will be troubled or consider you a rival.

    This will trouble your hard work or education, which will definitely trouble your progress and will trouble you from reaching your destination.

    Everyone in this world desires or hopes for an identity or position of their own. That is why there is so much hard work and suffering, running from here to there or standing in one position, twist oneself with thousands of dreams.

But the point is – how to avoid or remove obstacles in the way. The more obstacles, the more uncertain the progress, and the opposite also exists.

While preparing yourself, you have to be strong within yourself. You have to avoid all crowds.

It is said that self-improvement means family improvement, which is why it is essential to creat out from the crowd in order to make your own identity 💗 !

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Acceptability - Vs. - Competence

 Acceptability - Vs - Competence

Competences you can grip with some time or it is very much under your control. But Acceptability is not just a word it is hard to achieve or can be said to be a whole lots of luck.

A competence is the product of effort - competence is possible if you start with a destination. Competence can benefit you or remain stuck.

But Acceptability is not a product of effort or a limitation of try/action - it is a result of the whole structure or the appearance or appearance of the result of everything in life. The complex it is to achieve, the simple it is to get lost in behavior.

Fear of loss of competence is very rare and it is not reduced or lost but variable. The competence you have is dependent on social demand, the less demand-the less the range of competence.

And acceptability is not a social demand—it is a result of life. Many highly competence people do not get acceptability - on the other hand, there is no acceptability person who does not have competence. All acceptability persons have Competence – guaranteed!

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Those who can do without me.......

Those who can do without me - I can do without them.

We are social creatures, so we need each other in everything. In society, everyone has to move together, return, and settle down in social or family activities and complement each other.

Society is not created alone, it is created through the combined efforts of people. Similarly, in a family, everyone needs to be connected to each other. Since we cannot or cannot live alone, it is impossible.

In society, each person's thoughts and functions are different - no one is the same as everyone else - but the thing about similarity is that everyone needs everyone else. This is our traditional rule. There is no way to go outside this rule.

We find that if we want to live together, we have to tolerate small faults and make concessions.

Objections arise when the willingness to make concessions decreases or reduce - we find that even in small matters, we ruin the relationship or stop moving forward.

Now the thing is, I will give concessions but no one will give concessions to me. This is not tolerable - so I have to go beyond my satisfaction and say, "I will continue to do without those who can do without me."

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